Nikmat Yang Mana Kau Dustakan?

(Gambar hanyalah sekadar hiasan. Sumber: Google Image)

Ada kisah menarik untuk kita renung. Seorang lelaki dengan putus asa mengadu nasibnya kepada seorang pakar motivasi.

“Tuan, perniagaan saya tidak menjadi. Rugi banyak. Kereta kena tarik. Kawan-kawan semua lari. Hutang keliling pinggang. Sekarang saya sudah tiada apa-apa lagi.”

“Benarkah awak tidak ada apa-apa lagi?” Tanya Pakar Motivasi.

“Benar. Secuit yang berharga pun tidak ada. Semua buruk sahaja,” tegasnya.

“Baiklah. Ambil kertas ini. Kemudian buat satu garisan di tengah,” arah Pakar Motivasi.

Lelaki itu menurut sahaja sambil menanti arahan seterusnya.

“Ruangan di sebelah kiri adalah benda buruk yang menimpa kamu. Sebelah kanan, adalah benda baik. Mulakan menulis sekarang.”

Lelaki itu menulis di ruangan sebelah kiri. Hampir penuh. Sarat dengan pelbagai masalah yang melanda hidupnya. Namun ruangan di sebelah kanan langsung tidak diusik.

Pakar Motivasi itu mengangkat sebelah kening tatkala melihat apa yang ditulisnya.

“Sekarang, mari bercerita tentang isterimu yang telah mati,” ujar tokoh motivasi.

“Eh… tuan cakap elok-elok. Isteri saya masih hidup. Belum mati lagi. Tidak ada pun catatan tentang kematian isteri saya di sini,” jawabnya pantas.

“Okey baik. Jika begitu, tuliskan ia di sebelah kanan. Ia satu bentuk nikmat. Ramai orang yang menghadapi ujian berat dengan kematian pasangannya. Ia adalah satu ujian yang lebih berat daripada kereta ditarik.”

Lelaki itu mula tersentak.

“Sekarang, mari bercerita tentang anak awak yang ditangkap mabuk dan masuk penjara,” ujar tokoh motivasi itu.

“Eh… sejak bila pula anak saya masuk penjara? Anak saya sedang elok belajar di kolej,” ujar lelaki itu.

“Ya? Kenapa tidak ditulis dalam ruangan sebelah kanan. Ramai orang yang diuji dengan cara itu, tetapi tuan tidak,” kata Pakar Motivasi.

Lelaki itu mengusap janggut sejemputnya.

“Kenapa awak tidak tengok pada nikmat yang banyak semua ini? Kenapa awak cuma tengok pada kegagalan yang kecil sahaja?” Soal Pakar.

“Err, ya tak ya juga.” Lelaki itu mulai sedar.

Kemudian tokoh motivasi itu berjaya mencungkil satu persatu anugerah dan nikmat yang ada pada lelaki itu. Ia sebenarnya lebih banyak daripada kesusahan yang sedang menimpanya.

Allah sendiri membongkar ubat ini dalam al-Quran. Dengan berzikir, hati kan tenang. Bila agaknya hati kita mahu yakin? Belum sampaikah masanya untuk yakin? Aduhai hati!

Berzikir kepada Allah merupakan penyelamat daripada pelbagai kerisauan, kebimbangan, kekesalan dan kegoncangan. Zikir merupakan jalan pintas paling mudah untuk mencapai kemenangan dan kebahagiaan yang sebenar.

Untuk melihat faedah dan manfaat zikir, cuba perhatikan semula beberapa pesan wahyu Allah, kemudian teruslah beramal dengannya pada setiap hari. Nescaya kita akan mendapat kedamaian hati dan ketenangan batin.

Dengan berzikir kepada Allah , gumpalan ketakutan, kekacauan, kecemasan dan kesedihan akan lenyap. Lebih dari itu, dengan berzikir kepada-Nya, tompokan beban hidup dan masalah hidup akan hilang. Tidak hairanlah apabila orang-orang yang selalu mengingati Allah sentiasa bahagia dan tenteram hidupnya.

Pesan Dr. Aidh Abdullah al-Qarni dalam bukunya La Tahzan, 

“Wahai orang yang mengeluh kerana sukar tidur, yang menangis kerana sakit, yang bersedih hati kerana satu tragedi dan yang berduka kerana suatu musibah, sebutlah nama Allah yang kudus.”
Semakin sering kita mengingati Allah, fikiran kita semakin terbuka, hati kita semakin tenteram, jiwa kita semakin bahagia dan nurani kita semakin sentosa. Hal ini berlaku kerana ketika mengingati Allah terkandung nilai-nilai tawakal kepada-Nya, keyakinan penuh kepada-Nya, kebergantungan diri yang padu kepada-Nya, berserah kepada-Nya, berbaik sangka kepada-Nya, dan pengharapan kebahagiaan daripada-Nya.

Dia sentiasa dekat ketika hamba berdoa kepada-Nya, sentiasa mendengar ketika diminta dan sentiasa mengabulkan jika dimohon.

Kata Dr. Aidh Abdullah al-Qarni lagi,

“Rendahkanlah dan tundukkan diri anda di hadapan-Nya, lalu sebutlah secara berulang-ulang nama-Nya yang indah dan penuh berkat itu dengan lidah anda sebagai penjelmaan dari ketauhidan, pujian, doa, permohonan dan permintaan keampunan anda kepada-Nya. Dengan begitu, nescaya berkat kekuatan dan bantuan daripada-Nya, anda akan mendapat kebahagiaan, ketenteraman, ketenangan, cahaya penerang dan kegembiraan.”


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  1. SHARING MESSAGES BY MAYANMAR GROUPS ABOUT YIP KUM FOOK AT SAMNAK SAMBODHI BUDDHIST TEMPLE, TAMAN DESA JAYA, KEPONG.....
    Dear Sir and Madam,
    We are Myanmar group in Malaysia; we lived in Malaysia over decade and always went to one of SAMNAK SAMBODHI Buddhist temple in Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong, Kuala Lumpur and we were very sad and regretting with the committees of temple because they are using our monks in wrong conception of Buddhist teaching or Buddhist rules. We came to temple to help our monks and respected of our religion.
    That temple is president of name: YIP KUM FOOK(lawyer), that our monks said and he is invited our monks from Myanmar to in charge of that temple but without pay anything to our monks, added he and his not respecting of our monks and sometime he ordered of his people to collected item such as paper, mineral water etc. without inform any words to our monks. In our religious believed we can’t take anything of holy place, if we done we are sin.
    In pervious, our monk said the committees always asked money from him, when our monks gave RM20,000.00 in cash on 2001 to the committees, then committees keep silent, later committees make problem with our monk again and cancelled of our monk Visa permit to stayed in Malaysia, then our monk, Sadayaw Nandiya) go to Australia and our monk not come that temple at long time. “YIP KUM FOOK gave our monk notebook computer for to cover of that amount of money our monk said”
    Many local people around temple said, now no more people come to this temple because committees is always make problem and we are heard from local people said: YIP KUM FOOK ordered of his people to put fire of Hindu temple at Taman Daya, Kepong because he needed that place to make his business about many years ago. “Everybody known what he done for Hindu temple at Taman Daya, Kepong”

    Last time also he invited police to arrest the monks at holy place(temple) and locked the temple without afraid and shameful of people because he believed committee is big and has more authority, also his son always says to people: this temple is belonging of his father. “This temple donated from public, we are work hard for this temple”

    This temple the committees always changed the monks, now they change the new monk to in charge of temple, this new monk also complaint the bad things of committees because committees also wait for donation box only, they without help anything to our monks. And committees controlled of our monks not to talk more or complaint more, our monks lived there as slaver and afraid of committees’ members.

    In new building where remaining of Buddha statue marble; we have renovation of Buddha statue because that Buddha statue is put very low, we lift to highest the committees don’t like and unhappy. In our country, anyone be able to come temple to worship the Buddha but in Malaysia is different temple controlling by committees.
    We hope everyone preserve of Buddhist teachings, and please safety of our monks, not see only money as this of temple. When we asked some of our people (Myanmar) and local people, the committees are very low of idea because is very narrow mind and without education of religions. And committees will not be disturbing of our monks, monks are like our father to take care of Buddhism and temple is like our place of resolving of our problem.

    Recently, our monk (Sadayaw Ashin Indaka original from Madalay, Myanmar) has been staying in this temple also unhappy because the committees are not pay anything to him, he is working in hardly to advise people and we also unhappy and very sad when heard the bad news from our monks. Sometime the committees people came and shouting in the temple without have any reason and done what they need to do, our monk said, the committees of this temple don’t have Buddhist teachings in their mind, may be next time Buddhist can destroy.
    From Myanmar Buddhist group in Malaysia but many word complaint by local Buddhist community in Malaysia.

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  2. PLEASE ALL MCA MEMBERS FAR FROM YIP KUM FOOK!
    请远离马华党员 叶金福!

    敬爱的马华公会中央领导層,
    现在世界各先进国都盡力保存佛教的文化和保护佛教的僧侶,但马华公会鹅唛區会主席叶金福律师 (Yip Kum Fook, MCA Gombak Chairman) 却反其道而行, 帶一般流垊到佛教埾地(SAMNAK SAMBODHI THAI BUDDHIST TEMPLE, NO: 19 JALAN 38 TAMAN DESA JAYA KEPONG 52100 KUALA LUMPUR, MALAYSIA)試圄摧毁佛教文化, 挑衅和打架, 并电招警方人員要扣留佛寺沙彌, 这种不按佛教條规, 軽视佛教精神的行动, 对世界佛教信徒实有侮辱之举, 的确令人不敢恭维.

    除此之马华公会鹅唛區会主席叶金福律师 (Yip Kum Fook, MCA Gombak)也利用杖势, 連众人朝拜的印度廟TAMAN DAYA, KEPONG, KUALA LUMPUR 放火燒毁把土地佔为已有, 马华公会鹅唛區会主席叶金福律师 (Yip Kum Fook, MCA Gombak Chairman)这种冒犯宗教的不良行为, 已引起廣大的大马人民愤怒而不满, 所以, 在耒屇的大选, 希望马华公会的中央领神, 能深明大義, 对此娄党员, 最好疏薳距离, 以免影响选票, 造成马华公会大大的败北, 遗恨江山此致, 并祝安康, 工作快乐.

    This Datuk is very bad like a dog; everyone has to send any message to the King(Agong) because it is a shame for the whole of Malaysia to be called Datuk
    By Ng Swee Huat, Kepong

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  3. This message is given attention to everyone in Malaysia, this is about YIP KUM FOOK lying and cheating people's money and so on.

    YIP KUM FOOK is a lawyer and president of a Buddhist association in SAMNAK SAMBODHI, Kepong...also why he doesn't embarrass Buddhists, Buddhism is the highest quality and better teaching in the world.

    But he doesn't know, now is the age of social media technology in this world, if he is a lawyer and has to understand what the law is because the law subject is very high, then he has to study hard, take a course for more than 6 years.

    in the future, he will kill himself because he thinks about the mistakes in what he made in the past, something like he cannot be his own problem, that following Doctor’s philosophy says, it is a mental problem, then he has no place to live in this world.

    If it's true that a lawyer doesn't dare to do such a bad thing, is he not afraid of the public or committing a sin?

    Hope everyone reads this message to the end, maybe everyone can really know about YIP KUM FOOK or the lawyer in Kepong, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

    By Danny Lim, Taman Ehsan, Kepong

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  4. In this world YIP KUM FOOK is very lucky because he is a lawyer do not have to study law, also do not have to go to law school, other lawyers have to study law for up to six years to become a full lawyer

    YIP KUM FOOK is a good friend of mine and he is a businessman as furniture items in Taman Daya, close to Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong and also he is like playing politics, in 1990 something he became MCA chairman in Taman Daya, Kepong…

    Later, he became the president of SAMNAK SAMBODHI BUDDHIST TEMPLE, Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong in 1994 something and he rejected the old president (Shia Kok Sun), then he took the presidency at that time, that everyone knows about it, in what happened at SAMNAK SAMBODHI

    He wants to be a lawyer because he wants to play politics, many politicians have some degree or gradually in education, and he also follows people in what they have, he does not see himself from what he came, now many know the origin of YIP KUM FOOK as well…..

    Ah Chin, Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong

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  5. YIP KUM FOOK menghancurkan Sangha kerana dia memaksa Sami Buddha keluar dari Kuil dan kemudian mengunci kuil, juga memanggil polis untuk menangkap Sami Buddha, juga menggunakan samseng untuk memusnahkan Sami Buddha

    Ramai yang menyamannya di mahkamah, seperti steven Lee (saudara selayang Mall), pasar burung(ah Choy) En Lim Sg. Buluh and etc. juga dia menipu duit Sami Myanmar (Ven. Nandaya) lebih kurang RM20,000.00 tak pernah bayar balik tapi masih tak tahu.

    Datuk (Yip Kum Fook) ini sangat teruk seperti binatang; semua orang kena titah apa-apa kepada Yang di-Pertuan Agong (Agong) kerana malu seluruh Malaysia bergelar Datuk, kita akan perutusan kepada sultan Selangor

    Oleh, lee kepong

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  6. About YIP KUM FOOK, it is better to you are escape from the Kepong area because you were my good friend in the previous days until today

    YIP KUM FOOK better leave Kuala Lumpur area because someone to report to police and Sentul Police Station and Breakfield Police Station want you

    We know you make more mistakes but you can't run away from the country's laws, on last time you can solve problems with pay money to shut people-mouth up, but now it's different, now is the age of technology like the internet

    I hope, you will understand me what I said in the verses above, I love you in my heart like my brother and I will protect you from what people gossip about you..ok

    Lee, Selayang

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  7. Please see this YIP KUM FOOK cheated amounting to RM20,000.00, it belongs to VEN. U NANDIYA. Fundraising donation by Myanmar Devotees to buy large Buddhist marble for SAMNAK SAMBODHI in 2000 that Buddha Marble from Myanmar

    Information and signature in blogspot.com by YIP KUM FOOK and please be aware of the issue as all contributions to Buddhist teachings:

    https://committeesamnaksambodhi1.blogspot.com/2019/01/

    SAMNAK SAMBODHI BUDDHIST TEMPLE at Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong, Kuala Lumpur. YIP KUM FOOK (MCA GOMBAK) is president, Secretary (YAP LEONG LAN) and Treasurer (NG GOOT MEE)

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  8. everything about YIP KUM FOOK who is a lawyer in Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong, Kuala Lumpur, that we want to send a letter to the Sultan of Selangor about giving the title of Datuk to the wrong person like YIP KUM FOOK, because this person is very evil in Kepong, he disturbs the monks and deceives the Myanmar monk’s money and etc.

    we NGO need to remove this guy from the community because this guy is in the community so bad name if anyone doesn't trust us and anyone can ask someone in Kepong, they will answer for you

    who is close friends with him, soon a problem arises because this man eats friends and cheating friends, YIP KUM FOOK (MCA GOMBAK) thinks only about money, that he had a lot of money but his character could not change what had been done badly in the past

    sharing by ah foo, Klang

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  9. di Malaysia amat memalukan kerana banyak jawatankuasa Kuil Buddha atau persatuan tidak memahami ajaran Buddha(Dhamma) dan juga tidak mengamalkan peraturan Buddha seperti mana-mana ajaran, mereka hanya menjadi jawatankuasa dan menjemput paderi asing untuk menjaga kuil sahaja

    contohnya, kuil Buddha SAMNAK SAMBODHI di Taman Desa Jaya, kepong, jawatankuasa di sana menggunakan sami Myanmar untuk menjaga, semua sami Myanmar datang ada gelaran Doktor tetapi satu perkataan juga tidak boleh bercakap dalam bahasa Inggeris. Juga, jawatankuasa sangat teruk kerana apabila mereka tidak menyukai mana-mana sami, mereka boleh mengeluarkan serta-merta

    SAMNAK SAMBODHI adalah presiden YIP KUM FOOK, ini juga sangat memalukan kerana bermain politik di kuil dan menjadikan kuil sentiasa menjadi masalah, menjadikan Buddha rendah standard, dulu YIP KUM FOOK menipu Rm20,000.00 dari sami Myanmar (Ven. U Nandiya)

    ya, jawatankuasa ini tidak malu dan takut berdosa kerana mereka menganggap kuil ini adalah jawatankuasa tertinggi daripada Sangha, KAMI tahu kuil ini daripada pengasas Sangha di Taman Ehsan dan Jalan 5 Taman Desa Jaya (berdekatan stesen Minyak BP), Kepong

    perkongsian kisah realiti oleh Ah Keong, jinjang utara

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  10. Anonymous said...
    di Malaysia amat memalukan kerana banyak jawatankuasa Kuil Buddha atau persatuan tidak memahami ajaran Buddha(Dhamma) dan juga tidak mengamalkan peraturan Buddha seperti mana-mana ajaran, mereka hanya menjadi jawatankuasa dan menjemput paderi asing untuk menjaga kuil sahaja

    contohnya, kuil Buddha SAMNAK SAMBODHI di Taman Desa Jaya, kepong, jawatankuasa di sana menggunakan sami Myanmar untuk menjaga, semua sami Myanmar datang ada gelaran Doktor tetapi satu perkataan juga tidak boleh bercakap dalam bahasa Inggeris. Juga, jawatankuasa sangat teruk kerana apabila mereka tidak menyukai mana-mana sami, mereka boleh mengeluarkan serta-merta

    SAMNAK SAMBODHI adalah presiden YIP KUM FOOK, ini juga sangat memalukan kerana bermain politik di kuil dan menjadikan kuil sentiasa menjadi masalah, menjadikan Buddha rendah standard, dulu YIP KUM FOOK menipu Rm20,000.00 dari sami Myanmar (Ven. U Nandiya)

    ya, jawatankuasa ini tidak malu dan takut berdosa kerana mereka menganggap kuil ini adalah jawatankuasa tertinggi daripada Sangha, KAMI tahu kuil ini daripada pengasas Sangha di Taman Ehsan dan Jalan 5 Taman Desa Jaya (berdekatan stesen Minyak BP), Kepong

    perkongsian kisah realiti oleh Ah Keong, jinjang utara
    sharing by Thai Buddhist Chetawan Temple(PJ)

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  11. Adakah YIP KUM FOOK memusnahkan agama Buddha? kerana dia telah menendang Bhikkhu (VEN. PHRA PIYA DHAMMO) keluar dari Kuil, kesilapan itu akan membawa dosa besar dalam ajaran Buddha, bahawa kerana perpecahan masyarakat Sangha dalam agama Buddha, pada masa hadapan dia akan menderita sepenuhnya. kehidupan, VEN. PHRA PIYA DHAMMO datang melawat KUIL BUDDHA SAMNAK SAMBODHI tetapi YIP KUM FOOK mengesyaki VEN. PHRA PIYA DHAMMO untuk mengambil alih jawatannya

    Semua orang di Kepong tahu tentang YIP KUM FOOK, dia seorang yang kotor di Kepong dan dia melakukan pelbagai keburukan seperti membakar kuil Hindu di Taman Daya, kerana tempat itu dia mahu membuka kedai perabotnya dan juga menipu Rm20.000.00 dari Sami Myanmar (Ven. U Nandiya), dan banyak perkara lagi yang dia lakukan pada masa lalu

    Kita rakyat Malaysia dan perlu berhati-hati dengan mereka (YIP KUM FOOK DAN KUMPULAN) kerana mereka akan muflis(kebankrapan) di Malaysia pada masa hadapan.. kerana YIP KUM FOOK mencipta segala-galanya untuk mendapatkan wang, dia tidak peduli siapa yang menderita dan apa berlaku kepada orang lain….

    Shared by Jason Yap, WAT MEH LIEW THAI BUDDHIST TEMPLE, Kuala Lumpur

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  12. The last time YIP KUM FOOK set fire to a Hindu temple in Taman Daya, Hindus kept quiet after he and his group and two policemen came to harass a Buddhist monk at the SAMNAK SAMBODHI BUDDHIST TEMPLE in Taman Desa Jaya, Kepong, now the news is getting slower people are listening, and many people are not satisfied with what he did before

    In Buddhist rule, anyone who disturbs and makes sangha broken, that people will fall into hell when they alive as like Devadatta, who tried to kill Buddha but was unsuccessful, YIP KUM FOOK this should care, now karma will be active anytime.

    Everyone has to be careful and live from him because YIP KUM FOOK is a very dirty mind and he is a lawyer but doesn't know whether he is or not, he is a lawyer because he is in the furniture business, so(how) he can study law, the laws have to study for 6 years.

    Sharing by :
    Wat Thai Mon - Kulim Cai Bo Hin Kulim Temple

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  13. YIP KUM FOOK main politik di Kuil Buddha (SAMNAK SAMBODHI), dia tolak AJK yang siapa lawan dengan dia, AJK dari pengasas YIP KUM FOOK pun tolak, YIP KUM FOOK ni hati sangat fikirannya kotor dan jahat manusia.

    YIP KUM FOOK sangat bodoh dan kurang pendidikan, kalau dia pandai, dia tak akan kacau dan menolak Ven. Phra Piya Dhammo keluar dari Kuil Buddha(SAMNAK SAMBODHI), jika dia cukup pandai, dia perlu menyemak dulu Ven. Phra Piya Dhammo ialah siapa dan dari mana?

    Anda seorang peguam dan DATUK tak boleh berfikir dalam perkara biasa, ini amat memalukan kepada Sultan Selangor yang memberi gelar Datuk kepada anda, jika Sultan Selangor tahu perkara ini, Sultan Selangor mengambil kembali gelaran itu.

    Seperti undang-undang bersekutu Malaysia mengetahui tentang anda menipu orang, mereka akan menutup pejabat peguam anda (YIP KUM FOOK & ASSOCIATES, Kuala Lumpur No. 2A & B, Jalan 53, Desa Jaya, Kepong, 52100, Kuala Lumpur, WP Kuala Lumpur), jika anda benar-benar belajar undang-undang, mungkin anda tidak melakukan (tak berani) membuat kejahatan seperti itu

    Shared by Koh Eng Yong…. WAT MEH LIEW THAI BUDDHIST TEMPLE

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